On this week's episode we're going in on a sex + diversity conversation with the one and only Dirty Lola, edutainer and creator of the live sex Q&A, variety show and podcast Sex Ed A Go-Go.
About Lola:
Dirty Lola has spent the last six years sharing her personal journey into body- and sex-positivity, kink and polyamory through shows, workshops, and bachelorette parties. Her sex positive talk show and revue is performed live and based in New York City, where anonymous questions about all things sexual are answered in a fun and informative way by Lola and her Pussy Posse.
Find Dirty Lola at:
Twitter: @DirtyLola
@SexEdAGoGo
Instagram: @DirtyLola
Facebook: facebook.com/DirtyLolaSEAGG
Resources:
Scene on Radio podcast - Seeing White
Holy Moly!! Episode 40 of Ignite Intimacy is here!!!
Curious about enhancing your sex and love life with cannabis?!
Wonder how cannabis supports sexuality and health?!
On episode 40, my guest cannabis guruess Elise McRoberts is schooling me on the ABCs of THC and CBD when it comes to naturally supporting healthy sexuality and deeper intimacy with the good green herb. From topicals to tinctures, extracts to edibles, we're learning how cannabis products can enhance your experiences both in your day to day life AND in the bedroom.
Get ready for a juicy conversation about the "budding" cannabis industry on episode 40, Cannabis + Sex with Elise McRoberts!
About Elise:
A speaker, entrepreneur, and cannabis expert among many other titles, Elise's passion has been cannabis education and creating a social space for adults to enjoy conscious consumption of cannabis. Based in California, Elise is increasingly in demand as a top adviser for various professionals looking to get involved in the budding cannabis industry.
Do you wish you could have more open and honest conversations about sex and intimacy with your partner, friends, family members and community?
Have you ever wondered where you can find a space to have your questions about intimate topics discussed in a safe, open group setting?
After realizing that he wasn't the only one with questions about intimacy, Jared Matthew Weiss began hosting monthly town hall style gatherings where topics on sex, intimacy (and other juicy things that folks might feel uncomfortable talking about) are addressed through anonymous questions and honest and open group discussion. What started as a fun way to open up the lines of communication became an immediate success, with Jared naming his event Touchpoint and holding gatherings filled with people from many different cultures all over the world. Touchpoint subjects range from sex positions, BDSM, losing your virginity and more.
Join us as we discuss how these amazing conversations are bringing people together, creating huge breakthroughs, improving communication in all aspects of people's lives and causing attendees to turn up the heat in their sex and love lives on episode 39, Sex Talk Town Hall Style with Jared Matthew Weiss.
About Jared
Based in NY, Jared is an entrepreneur and artist whose mission is to empower people to use their voices. Featured, among other places, on The Today Show, Bravo, Tyra, and MTV, Jared created Touchpoint in 2016.
Ladies, are you self-sabotaging when dating men you actually like and desire more connection with?
Do you feel powerless about where your love is at?
Are you tired of attracting unavailable men, or having a relationship cool down just when it’s getting hot?
In episode 38 of the Ignite Intimacy podcast, Krisztina and I do a deep dive into how we can self sabotage a good thing just when it's getting hot, how to spot unavailable men and women and what we can do to become strong and powerful within ourselves to create powerful relationships with quality humans!!
Learn how to create the love life you deeply desire in episode 38, Relational Sabotage & Unavailable Men with Krisztina Farkas.
Make sure to stay tuned until the end of the show to hear about the special gifts Krisztina has to offer the Ignite Intimacy audience!
About Krisztina:
With 17 years of accumulated experience in human potential enhancement and relationship dynamics, Krisztina Farkas specializes in empowering women so that they can have a powerful relationship with a quality man.
When she’s not leading summits, or facilitating relationship workshops throughout the U.S., Krisztina works out of San Diego, consulting one-on-one with women, ranging from 7 figure business owners to stay at home moms, with their relationship issues.
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Are you single and wondering how you can get the hot, sexy love you desire? Or are you in a romantic relationship that could use some help with communication to get you and your partner on the same page and spice things up? Then this episode of the Ignite Intimacy podcast is for you!
Rono and Sierra Sullivan join me for an episode full of love and laughter as we discuss their work to empower women and couples so they understand both the spiritual and biological evolution of men and women and achieve a balance in their relationships. We’re talking about asking for the support we need in a fun, playful way, developing an awareness of your life, and setting intentions for the way you want things to go so you can show up powerfully in every situation.
Make sure to show up in our Sacred Space for episode 36, Communication to Ignite Romantic Relationships with Rono and Sierra Sullivan!
About Rono and Sierra:
Having known each other since childhood (and maybe even for lifetimes!), Rono and Sierra are a couple that have built their relationship on a foundation of friendship and lots of hard work. Together they have created a sisterhood committed to empowerment, and a reputation for transforming the lives of women and couples all over.
Feminine Empowerment Expert & Passion Coach Sierra’s background in publishing and marketing, and Rono’s experiences including lifestyle coaching have lent themselves perfectly to manifesting their business of creating love, understanding, and compassion.
Check out their websites at LifeStylized.com and HotSexyLove.com
Destin Gerek – The Evolved Masculine
Alison Armstrong - The Queens Code
Website: UnderstandMen.com
Did you know that transgender people are twice as likely to have a college degree but three times as likely to be unemployed? Or that in some states you can still be fired for being gay?
These are the issues that are facing LGBTQ entrepreneurs, and Caleb Arring and Matthew VanHorn are working to change the world of business for people within this community. They’ve taken their amazing talents and funneled them into bringing LGTBQ entrepreneurs into a business niche to vibe and thrive together.
We dive into their earlier lives, Caleb’s transgender journey, their relationships with themselves and each other, the beauty of openness and gender fluidity, and finding your place in the world. Join us for some juicy goodness on Episode 35 of Ignite Intimacy, Gender Fluidity & Being True to You with LGBTQ Entrepreneurs Caleb Arring and Matthew VanHorn!
About Caleb and Matthew:
After suffering with confusion, self-loathing, and an eating disorder as a teen, Matthew overcame shame, guilt, and fear through the Celebrating Your Body Erotic workshop, and now makes a point of being naked as much as possible. Identifying as queer, he has expanded his talents for relationship coaching to include the business world.
Caleb is a queer identified transgender man who first identified as a lesbian, then transitioned in the early 2000s. Using his Masters in Business Administration, he worked in management, then as an attorney, before creating LGBTQ Entrepreneur with Matthew.
Together for 3 years, and engaged, Caleb and Matthew live and work in the San Francisco Bay area, and make partner to partner communication a priority in their relationship.
Check out their website at LGBTQentrepreneur.com
Matthew’s website: www.eroticexploration.com
They are hosting Be Fabulous, Get Clients - a three day transformational summit for LGBTQentrepreneurs in September 2017 and they're giving away scholarships to it so check it out soon at:
https://www.lgbtqentrepreneur.com/summit
RESOURCES:
Inclusion, The Book - Jennifer Brown
The Ethical Slut – Janet W. Hardy
The Big Leap – Gay Hendricks
Have you ever felt alone or confused about your lifestyle, sexuality and the choices you make concerning the two?
It took some effort, and I'm super excited that I finally got to have a conversation with the incredible Dulcinea Pitagora on these topics and more. This brilliant powerhouse specializes in providing support for those who may not be able to relate to, trust, or feel comfortable discussing their alternative lifestyles with just any therapist.
Identifying as kink, queer, gender fluid and a past sex worker herself, Dulcinea can offer clients understanding, trust, and a strong knowledge of many lifestyles. Dulcinea continues to be the voice of the LGTBQ and BDSM communities, founding a variety of projects and creating resources for those seeking a shame free space to express their real selves.
About Dulcinea:
Highly educated in psychology, social work, and human sexuality, Dulcinea Pitagora is also a researcher and well known member of NYC’s BDSM and LGBTQ communities. Running a private practice in Manhattan, Dulcinea is also the founder of ManhattanAlternative.com, a listing of alternative lifestyle affirmative service providers in New York City.
A strong belief in encouraging sex positive education and tolerance has also led Dulcinea to publish several articles, present at conferences and universities, and training.
For more information about Dulcinea and the amazing work happening in NYC and all over, please visit:
Grateful to have Lucia Paxton from episode 27 return with her husband and partner in business, Trevor, discussing their adventure into the world of sensual researchers, conscious sexual community and hour long female orgasms! On this episode you're going to hear from a male perspective, which is something I've been wanting to add more of on the Ignite Intimacy podcast!!
After the birth of their daughter, Lucia struggled with feelings of sadness, body shame and inadequacy. When a female friend of hers called her “Juicy” and invited her to a communication group, it started her on a journey of sexual emancipation, which Trevor quickly joined. Jumping into courses on sensuality and sexuality, they learned that instead of trying to “fix” the things they thought were wrong about themselves, they could instead choose to have fun and live their lives through pleasure.
Wanting to share the concept of finding yourself perfect, and leave a legacy of perfection to their daughter, Lucia and Trevor founded Luscious L.O.V.E Life, where they teach women and couples about the path to pleasure through sensual gratification, pleasurable communication, and a woman’s orgasm.
About Lucia and Trevor:
Together since 1996 and the parents of a 16 year old daughter, Lucia and Trevor live in and run their business out of California.
Lucia, a former Spanish teacher, is an educator, entrepreneur, mother, and artist. She is a researcher of sensuality , communication, intentional living, and Deliberate Orgasm ( female orgasm).
Trevor, a former Silicon Valley techie and general contracter, has dedicated his life to service of the Goddess, and is a dedicated researcher and instructor of female orgasm, having trained in DOing (Deliberate orgasm) and advanced communication practices.